Shed your sweat and blood; Reap your own harvest.
4. 流自己的汗，滴自己的血，幹自己的活
Precious advises to success - 17 secret codes
導向成功的金玉良言 --- 成功秘碼 17條
If you want to become rich, let’s see what a rich dad or rich mom is going to tell us.
如何致富？且聽聽看富爸爸富媽媽是怎麼說的。
* If you want to grow rich, you must depend on yourself to fulfill your dream. If you expect to have help from the Heaven, your ancestors or someone else, you are not a true man.
「發財的夢要自己圓，靠人 、靠天 、靠祖先，都不是英雄好漢。」
* Your family is your paradise. Without your family, your life will be so gloomy. Love is your life. Without love, your life will be meaningless.
「 親情是樂園，沒有它生活將暗然失色。愛情是生命，沒有它就意味著生存沒有意義。」
* “Never expose you money to anyone”. This is a warning not only for you to guard against scoundrels from outside but also your “Little Emperors” at home.
Being a rich dad, you should not spoil your children with money. Otherwise, they might take away all your money and properties one day and still complain, “My daddy doesn’t love me”
「財不露白」不僅是防止歹徒用的，也同時是用來防止「小皇帝」用的。富爸爸有錢，也要有節制，否則「不肖子」也有可能會奪走你的財產、要了你的命。如果你不答應孩子的要求，他反而倒頭過來責怪你說：「爸爸不愛我。」
* Love from parents to children, or children to parents cannot be measured with “money” but with “time“.
「父母給子女的愛」或「子女給父母的愛」，這種關愛的多寡是用「時間」來衡量的，而不是用「金錢或物質」來衡量的。」
* Although your children are now living in a luxurious house, ride in a brand-name car, and dress in their best everyday, they still cannot feel your love for them, just because you do not spend enough time with them them. Gradually, they will become more and more distant from you.
「如果你沒有足夠時間陪孩子長大，僅靠物質享受，如：住豪宅、開名車.、錦衣玉帛，並不會讓孩子感覺到你愛他，反而會使孩子更加疏遠你。」
* When children are growing up, no one can replace the role of their parents.
「在孩子成長的過程中，父母的角色沒有人可以取代。」
* If you can spend a little bit more time with your children, they will not follow bad examples so easily.
「多給孩子一點時間、多給孩子一點關懷，孩子就不容易學壞。」
* The more money you give to your immature children, the lazier and more self-indulgent they will become and nothing they will accomplish in the end.
「把金錢與財產提早分給「未成年的孩子」，這樣的孩子就容易變得不知天高地厚，最終因為懶散而成不了才。」
* If you intend to use the power of money to make up your negligence to your children, that will only deteriorate your relations.
「濫用物質與金錢的力量，來彌補你自己對孩子的虧歉，你這樣做，只會使親情愈來愈淡薄。」
* Love needs to be nurtured, cultivated, and protected incessantly, just like you need to water your plants everyday.
「愛」是要，不斷地滋潤、不斷地培養、不斷地灌溉、不斷地呵護，愛不是澆一次水就夠了，而是要每天不停的澆水。」
* Kids are not living toys for you to kill your loneliness. They are neither remedy to soothe your bad mood. They are certainly not you servants or nurses at your service when you are old and sick.
「孩子不是大人排除寂寞的活玩具」 也不是「你心情不好時的出氣桶」更不是「你年老多病時任你差使的佣人或看護。」
* The best gift parents can give to their kids is spending a few more minutes with them everyday.
「一個父母可以給孩子最大最好的禮物是，每天給孩子多幾分鐘的時間。」
* Love in exchange of money is bound to be tragic.
「用金錢換來的愛情或親情最為可悲。」
* You need to work hard step by step to build up your fortune. Never take short cuts, follow illegal paths and do anything ungrateful.
「發財靠自己要 一步一步慢慢地建立起來，絕不可以走捷徑、絕不可以走旁門左道、也絕不可以忘恩負義。」
* Shed your sweat and blood and reap your own harvest. You have to work extremely hard to realize your golden dream.
「流自己的汗、幹自己的活、發財夢是要靠自己努力去實現。」
* A happy family is much more important than money.
「幸福家庭比金錢更重要。」
* If you chase after wealth so desperately that you have your family fall apart. What is the purpose and meaning of your life then?
「如果你一味地追求過多的財富，卻換來一個破碎的家庭，這樣的人生是沒有意義的。」
07-09-2009 RENEW